Being married to someone in the medical field comes with its own set of unique challenges, and something as simple as wearing a wedding ring can suddenly become a complex issue. For me, it was something I hadn’t really considered until my husband started his residency. Suddenly, I found myself wondering about the practicality and safety of his wearing his ring at work.
Initially, my husband wore his wedding ring all the time. He had even worn a silicone ring during our engagement, and I knew he was already aware of the potential for injury, specifically degloving. However, as he got further into his medical career, the question of whether or not to wear his ring at work became more pressing. He was worried about it getting in the way, getting damaged, or even posing a hygiene risk in the hospital environment. And honestly, I started to worry too.
I started looking into what other couples in similar situations were doing. I discovered that many doctors choose not to wear their wedding rings at work for various reasons. Some find it impractical, while others are concerned about hygiene or the risk of damage. I learned that a popular alternative is to wear a silicone ring. They are comfortable, inexpensive, and, most importantly, safe. My husband tried this option, and it worked well for him for a while.
But then I stumbled upon another idea: wearing the ring on a necklace. I saw that many doctors wear their rings on a chain around their neck. This keeps the ring close without posing any safety or hygiene risks. The holders can range from affordable to luxurious, giving plenty of choices.
While researching this, I discovered explore more options for men’s necklaces, and I was particularly drawn to a specific style. I thought something with a natural stone could be a meaningful and stylish way for my husband to keep his ring close.
I ended up purchasing the New Bohemian Men's Beaded Necklace Tiger Stone Natural Stone Trend Design Minimalist Necklace Commemorative Gift from Sumsfashion. I felt the black style was modern and masculine, and the tiger stone added a unique touch. It’s a commemorative gift, so it felt special. My husband really liked it. He said it was comfortable to wear and he appreciated being able to keep his wedding ring close without it being on his finger at work. It looks great with his work attire but also casual enough for weekends. It became a part of his daily routine.
Another point that came up in my research was the potential for rings to harbor bacteria. I realized that even with regular handwashing, rings can trap moisture and provide a breeding ground for germs. This is especially concerning in a hospital setting. I even saw some doctors wearing huge rings, and I couldn't help but wonder how they managed to wear gloves without ripping them, or how much bacteria was accumulating in the crevices. This further solidified my belief that finding an alternative solution for wearing the wedding ring at work was the right choice.
Beyond silicone rings and necklaces, I also learned about rings made from materials like tungsten carbide. Apparently, things wash off tungsten easily, and it looks classy. This could be another option to consider if you're looking for something durable and easy to clean.
Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to wear a wedding ring is a personal one. For me, it wasn't about insecurity or distrust. I completely trust my husband, and I know that our relationship is strong regardless of whether or not he's wearing a ring. Many cultures don't wear rings anyway, so it really doesn't bother me. It was more about finding a practical and safe solution that worked for both of us.
My husband's experience has been a bit of a journey. He initially wore his traditional wedding ring, but quickly realized it wasn't practical for his job. He then switched to a silicone ring, which was a good temporary solution. Now, with the Sumsfashion necklace, he has a stylish and meaningful way to keep his ring close without compromising safety or hygiene. He also wears his regular ring when we're not at work or doing things like gardening. It's all about finding what works best for each situation.
Here are a few practical tips and recommendations based on my experience and research: